Comments on: June 1st, 1981 and Before http://www.mchenrycounty1981.com/archives/2009/05/june-1st-1981-and-before/ The Murders of Ronald Scharff and Patricia Freeman Tue, 12 May 2009 00:53:58 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0 By: Paul Scharff http://www.mchenrycounty1981.com/archives/2009/05/june-1st-1981-and-before/comment-page-1/#comment-540 Paul Scharff Thu, 07 May 2009 22:47:02 +0000 http://www.mchenrycounty1981.com/?p=449#comment-540 Thank you for your encouragement, I really do appreciate it. I am really glad to see my friends from www.jurorthirteen.com reading my blog. Thank J13!! Thank you for your encouragement, I really do appreciate it. I am really glad to see my friends from http://www.jurorthirteen.com reading my blog. Thank J13!!

]]> By: Dojewo http://www.mchenrycounty1981.com/archives/2009/05/june-1st-1981-and-before/comment-page-1/#comment-539 Dojewo Thu, 07 May 2009 17:35:44 +0000 http://www.mchenrycounty1981.com/?p=449#comment-539 Paul a very touching story Paul a very touching story

]]> By: Jurorthirteen http://www.mchenrycounty1981.com/archives/2009/05/june-1st-1981-and-before/comment-page-1/#comment-538 Jurorthirteen Thu, 07 May 2009 05:16:14 +0000 http://www.mchenrycounty1981.com/?p=449#comment-538 Okay... now you both have me crying! Cloey Okay… now you both have me crying!

Cloey

]]> By: Paul Scharff http://www.mchenrycounty1981.com/archives/2009/05/june-1st-1981-and-before/comment-page-1/#comment-537 Paul Scharff Thu, 07 May 2009 00:02:16 +0000 http://www.mchenrycounty1981.com/?p=449#comment-537 Hey Shane, It certainly was an eventful day. I recall that day perfectly all the way up to the point that my mom finally got home and told me that my father was killed. From there things are recalled from a third person perspective. I don't remember your phone call. Which is not comprehensiable to me. I know that either I would call you or you would call me but I just don't remember. I had to be in shock and I think that I was like that for days. It was pretty bad. I don't know if you remember but you had to tell me that you were at my father's wake. After you had told me that you were there, I can only visualize your mother walking through the funeral home's parlor. It makes a little sense that I would only see her because I would slip in and out of tunnel vision. I think that this all remarks to how out of it I was. Man, what a time, it saddens me to think about incoherent that I was. How would I not remember you! There is something I need to tell you about that we didn't understand as kids. I know why we never saw Curtis again and why it seemed like he just disappeared. It actually relates back the murder of my father. Remind me to tell you off line. Nothing that could not be publicly said but not easy to explain in a comments section. I want to thank you for reaching out to me Shane. It means allot to me and I am too sorry for being out of touch so long. I will shoot you my number and you can call me so we can talk. Take care Buddy and I love you too. Paul Hey Shane,
It certainly was an eventful day. I recall that day perfectly all the way up to the point that my mom finally got home and told me that my father was killed. From there things are recalled from a third person perspective. I don’t remember your phone call. Which is not comprehensiable to me. I know that either I would call you or you would call me but I just don’t remember. I had to be in shock and I think that I was like that for days. It was pretty bad. I don’t know if you remember but you had to tell me that you were at my father’s wake. After you had told me that you were there, I can only visualize your mother walking through the funeral home’s parlor. It makes a little sense that I would only see her because I would slip in and out of tunnel vision. I think that this all remarks to how out of it I was. Man, what a time, it saddens me to think about incoherent that I was. How would I not remember you!

There is something I need to tell you about that we didn’t understand as kids. I know why we never saw Curtis again and why it seemed like he just disappeared. It actually relates back the murder of my father. Remind me to tell you off line. Nothing that could not be publicly said but not easy to explain in a comments section.

I want to thank you for reaching out to me Shane. It means allot to me and I am too sorry for being out of touch so long. I will shoot you my number and you can call me so we can talk. Take care Buddy and I love you too.

Paul

]]> By: Shane Petersen http://www.mchenrycounty1981.com/archives/2009/05/june-1st-1981-and-before/comment-page-1/#comment-536 Shane Petersen Wed, 06 May 2009 22:12:37 +0000 http://www.mchenrycounty1981.com/?p=449#comment-536 Paul..... What a horrible day, I have tears in my eyes as I'm typing this.I remember every second of that last day of school that was supposed to be so "happy," looking forward to the summer of carelessly playing together. Listening on the radio as they talked about the murders that took place in Lakemoore, calling you to let you know what I thought Danny was so upset about, you answering the phone crying and telling me your father was murdered also. it was so devastating and still is, I was so close to you and felt like I had lost a father too. So glad to be back in touch with you and so sorry we had fallen out of touch for so long ,love you buddy .Gotta go my son has a track meet and my wife and daughter are waiting for me in the car,I'll talk to you later. Shane Paul….. What a horrible day, I have tears in my eyes as I’m typing this.I remember every second of that last day of school that was supposed to be so “happy,” looking forward to the summer of carelessly playing together. Listening on the radio as they talked about the murders that took place in Lakemoore, calling you to let you know what I thought Danny was so upset about, you answering the phone crying and telling me your father was murdered also. it was so devastating and still is, I was so close to you and felt like I had lost a father too. So glad to be back in touch with you and so sorry we had fallen out of touch for so long ,love you buddy .Gotta go my son has a track meet and my wife and daughter are waiting for me in the car,I’ll talk to you later.
Shane

]]> By: Paul Scharff http://www.mchenrycounty1981.com/archives/2009/05/june-1st-1981-and-before/comment-page-1/#comment-533 Paul Scharff Tue, 05 May 2009 22:55:01 +0000 http://www.mchenrycounty1981.com/?p=449#comment-533 Thank You for your comments, I do appreciate them. I really glad to see my friends from the www.jurorthirteen.com are visiting! Thank You for your comments, I do appreciate them. I really glad to see my friends from the http://www.jurorthirteen.com are visiting!

]]> By: Jurorthirteen http://www.mchenrycounty1981.com/archives/2009/05/june-1st-1981-and-before/comment-page-1/#comment-532 Jurorthirteen Tue, 05 May 2009 21:04:32 +0000 http://www.mchenrycounty1981.com/?p=449#comment-532 Wow! Great write up, Paul! Wow! Great write up, Paul!

]]> By: Paul Scharff http://www.mchenrycounty1981.com/archives/2009/05/june-1st-1981-and-before/comment-page-1/#comment-531 Paul Scharff Tue, 05 May 2009 04:30:22 +0000 http://www.mchenrycounty1981.com/?p=449#comment-531 Love you too Bobbi, Thank you for all your kind words and help. Knowing that people like yourself care, makes it all easier. Love you too Bobbi,
Thank you for all your kind words and help. Knowing that people like yourself care, makes it all easier.

]]> By: Bobbi B http://www.mchenrycounty1981.com/archives/2009/05/june-1st-1981-and-before/comment-page-1/#comment-529 Bobbi B Tue, 05 May 2009 04:20:35 +0000 http://www.mchenrycounty1981.com/?p=449#comment-529 Paul... I can only imagine how difficult it must be to recall the details. If only there was anything at all that could be said to make it feel better. I love you and hope we're all able to help you resolve this! Paul… I can only imagine how difficult it must be to recall the details. If only there was anything at all that could be said to make it feel better. I love you and hope we’re all able to help you resolve this!

]]> By: Paul Scharff http://www.mchenrycounty1981.com/archives/2009/05/june-1st-1981-and-before/comment-page-1/#comment-527 Paul Scharff Tue, 05 May 2009 00:19:55 +0000 http://www.mchenrycounty1981.com/?p=449#comment-527 Thanks for reading it Richard I really appreciate it! Thanks for reading it Richard I really appreciate it!

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